We’re talking about starting a family, and I’m scared that the pressures that come with parenthood would only make this worse. I consider myself a fairly sexual person, and I get a lot of pleasure out of being desired. But I’ve found that this turns into a negative feedback loop, where his lack of initial interest leads to me being less attracted to him, and so on. We have sex regularly, but I always initiate, and his enthusiasm is middling until we get going, at which point I think we both enjoy ourselves. Real-life furry action (fur suits and the like) does not interest him (I’ve offered). I feel somewhat helpless, as his fetish doesn’t allow me to meet him halfway. He seems only marginally attracted to me, and it bums me out that his more intense sexual drives are funneled into furry porn. However, I think at that younger age, I conflated the emotional openness and acceptance of his sexuality with actually being satisfied with the sexual component of our relationship. To his credit, he was up-front about this with me once we started getting serious. He doesn’t self-identify as a furry he doesn’t have a fur suit or fursona. However, his primary sexual fetish and main turn-on is furry porn-namely, cartoon images. We have sex fairly regularly, and it’s not bad. We have a lot of fun-traveling, shared hobbies, mutual friends, etc. We’ve been together ten years, married seven, no kids. Q: I’m an early 30s hetero woman in a monogamous relationship with my mid-30s hetero guy.
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